Story about communication: The meaning of appearance
Once upon a time, a Russian peasant went to visit Moscow, the big city. He arrived at its fanciest hotel. His boots were covered with mud, his clothing was torn, and his appearance was disheveled. Despite all this, the clerk at the hotel smiled at him. He gave the peasant a key to his room, the highest and most elegant room in the hotel. The peasant began walking up the hotel’s beautiful winding staircase.
When he arrived at the first floor, he walked right in front of a full-length mirror. He had never seen a mirror before and was terrified because it contained a beastly image staring back at him. in response he started growling and shouting at the beast but found it did the same right back to him. After that, he screamed and ran up the next set of stairs. On the second floor, he ran into the beast again. He screamed, and the beast screamed back at him. Once again he ran up the stairs, to the third floor. The beast stared right back at him. They exchanged insults and stood toe to toe.
Realizing he could not escape, the peasant ran back down to the lobby. He went back to the clerk at the desk. He told the clerk about the appearance of the beast stalking him. The clerk quickly realized the man was seeing his own reflection in the mirror. Rather than to embarrass or shame him, the clerk told the peasant that the strange-looking man was there to protect the hotel’s guests.
“Here’s the trick,” the clerk says. “If you make an angry face at him, he will do the same to you. But if you greet him with a smile and kind words, he will do the same to you.” The peasant thanked the clerk and went up to his room. He had no more terrifying stops.
Moral of the story:
- We should all be so mindful as the clerk was in the story. Instead of talking down to his guest about how he looked and acted he gave him helpful advice on how to get better in a respectful manner.
- Many times we get angry at ourselves for no good reason or focus on bad things just because we are used to doing so. First, you have to be nice to yourself, then you can expect others to do the same for you.
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